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frustrations and anguish of their careers and the nagging self-doubt that follows them. It is their way of
maintaining a psychological well-being when the pressure starts to build. Through these shared moments, they
evaluate their social position, drawing attention to the sharp contrast between their professional achievements
and the ongoing instability of their personal lives.
McMillan (1992) depicts: “Well, thank you, sister," Savannah said... "We're all good catches," Bernadine said.
"Why are we all such good goddamn catches?" Savannah asked... "Because we've got good hearts and we're
good lays and we're nice people” (p. 348).
The women consider themselves “good catches” to reclaim the power of evaluation. They are the architects of
their own value system, for they don’t need to be validated by men. This conversation serves as a stress test
for their self-esteem allowing to make sure that the internal “walls” of their respective selfhood remains
standing despite romantic upheavals.
In Getting to Happy (2010) and It’s Not All Downhill From here (2020), the characters are seen to move into
mid-life and aging stages. The sisterhood shifts from social refuge to formal system of solidarity. They come
to realize that they must work to build a safety net that will serve as a protective shield reinforcing their security
and bond as depicted in this passage: “Look. We love each other like sisters, don't we? ... And we know we've
got each other's back at all times, right? ... Then why don't we do something to try to help each other out?”
(McMillan, 2010, p. 241).
This call to action represents a “re-zoning” of their relationship from emotional support to active intervention.
It reflects the maturity of the structural system. Similarly, in It’s Not All Downhill From Here (2020), the
expansion of this sisterhood to include subsequent generations demonstrates the durability of the blueprint:
“When I got to the top landing I was crushed by hugs around my hips and upper arms and I just said, “Hello,
daughter and granddaughters!” “Finally, I get to meet my other mother in person!” (p. 333).
The term “other mother” is a significant concept in African American sociological theory, representing the
non-biological maternal bonds that sustain communities. This intergenerational safety net functions as a “load-
bearing” moment which demonstrates that the architecture McMillan (1992) constructed, is rather
transgenerational than ephemeral.
From the Standpoint theory perspective, these interactions indicate that the women shared experiences is a
form of specialized knowledge. They are aware of the “cracks” in the professional world like Robin’s financial
precariousness captured in this vivid passage: “It looks good on paper,” Robin said, “but I'm still not making
any real money, and I'm seriously thinking about looking for another job, at a bigger company.” (p. 175)
The group allows Robin to admit that her “status” is a façade, which she could not do in the “Architectural
Digest” world she aspires to. The women as real friends refuse to sell Robin illusions. Instead, they provide
her unwavering support necessary for survival.